Showing posts with label growing up. Show all posts
Showing posts with label growing up. Show all posts

Friday, March 1, 2013

Discussing Marriage...With A 4 Year Old

Earlier in the week, Y decided it was her wedding day (she was marrying Simon from Alvin & The Chipmunks).  And this is the dress she designed for herself.  I think I will keep this picture and display it on her actual wedding day which is hopefully far, far in the future.


Today B was home fairly early from work so he was able to accompany the girls and I on our trip to Old Navy.  After we returned home, I began cooking dinner and Y came over to help me.  This is the conversation that followed:

Y:  Mom, I'm gonna marry Steven.
Me:  Steven who?
Y:  A different Steven (as in, not her cousin Steven who's 21 years older than her and already married. Whew, glad we dodged that bullet).
Me:  Who is Steven?
Y:  He's a different Steven (she was growing frustrated at this point).
Me:  (change of approach) How do you know Steven?
Y:  From Old Navy.
Me:  You met him at Old Navy?
Y:  Yeah.
Me:  Did you play with him while we were there?
Y:  No, I just saw him.
Me:  How did you know his name was Steven?
Y:  Because that's what I heard his mom call him.
Me:  Oh, OK.  Well, I think you're a little too young to get married already.  You should probably at least wait until you go to college.
Y:  Why do I need to go to college?
Me:  So you can keep learning and get a job and go to work.
Y:  Why do I need to get a job and go to work, Daddy goes to work.
Me:  But you don't want to live with Mommy and Daddy when you're married.
Y:  Yes I do.
Me:  Sweetie, when you get married you're gonna wanna be with just your husband.  It's no fun living with Mommy and Daddy when you're married.
Y:  Then I don't wanna get married!  I want to stay little FOREVER!


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